I had intended to rushed to complete my daily task before going off to attend the wedding ceremony of Coach Alex's son at St Mary;s church this morning.
Failing to do so - as I had laid in bed too long eventhough I woke up very early today.
I asked Tisha to go and send the black mama cat to the vet for her schedule liposuction on her ear.
While she did that I took care of what needed to be done back home.
We reached the church ten minutes before the event started.
Feeling awkward as everyone seems to be a stranger. Thankfully there was a few familiar faces from the bowling gang we could be comfortable with.
Beautiful service as with the bride and groom. Indeed a very obvious matched union . A beginning of a new chapter in the lives of these two as they journey onto their future as one.
We could see couch Alex was teary for most part of the service.
I somehow could relate to his feelings. A little sentimental moment for most parents on the part where one would 'loose' a son or daughter . Reminiscing on yesteryears when they were still so young and dependant ....and now seeing them ready to 'fly the nest'. Oh the pain....the pain
They held a simple reception after the ceremony .
On the way home we stopped at the bank and also to the new eatery place that was widely advertised on FB for the food.
We were still full so we only try their dessert .
Went to collect the black mama cat before coming home.
It is then that I realised that Grey had quietly fall into that forever state of sleeping.
I felt relief that his ending didn't involve him screaming in pain although as with all my beloved fur kids, I still feel the pain in my heart.
I bury him together with the four ophan kittens I fostered that didn't survive.
I look and bid my last farewell. You were loved I would always tell them.
Indeed he was. From the day I took him in (April fool day in 2012) to his last day on earth.
Friday, 10 April 2015
Sunday, 5 April 2015
REFLECTION OF MY FEELING ON LIFE ....TODAY
I didn't need to elaborate more on this as he nailed it to the core with this posting on his whatsup account just days ago before tragically he was killed in a helicopter accident yesterday.
Hard to accept but age is not just a number anymore....
Jamaluddin Jarjis, 5 others dead in Semenyih chopper crash - See more at: http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/malaysia/article/helicopter-crashes-in-semenyih-bernama#sthash.mejEk1bi.dpuf
AND THEN IT IS WINTER
You know ... time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams.
But, here it is... the "back nine" of my life and it catches me by surprise...How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?
I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that "I was only on the first hole" and the "back nine" was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.
But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting gray...they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me...but, I see the great change...Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant...but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd become.
Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!
And so...now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though I'm on the "back nine", and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over on this earth...it's over. A new adventure will begin! Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done...things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.
So, if you're not on the "back nine" yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether you're on the "back nine" or not!
You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!
"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one. LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY ! HAVE A GREAT DAY Remember "It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver. LIVE HAPPY IN 2015!
LASTLY, CONSIDER THIS: ~Your kids are becoming you......but your grandchildren are perfect! ~Going out is good.. Coming home is better! ~You forget names.... But it's OK because other people forgot they even knew you!!! ~You realize you're never going to be really good at anything.... especially golf. ~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don't care to do them anymore. ~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep". ~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch.. ~You tend to use more 4 letter words ... "what?"..."when?"..." ??? ~Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere. ~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!!! ~What used to be freckles are now liver spots. ~Everybody whispers. ~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear. ~~~But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all, OLD FRIENDS!!
Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!" Send this on to other "Old Friends!" and let them laugh in AGREEMENT!!! It's Not What You Gather, But
What You Scatter That Tells What Kind Of Life You Have Lived.
TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN, YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER BE, SO ENJOY
**
Jamaluddin Jarjis was a member of parlement of Rompin and a former minister of Malaysia
Hard to accept but age is not just a number anymore....
Jamaluddin Jarjis, 5 others dead in Semenyih chopper crash - See more at: http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/malaysia/article/helicopter-crashes-in-semenyih-bernama#sthash.mejEk1bi.dpuf
AND THEN IT IS WINTER
You know ... time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams.
But, here it is... the "back nine" of my life and it catches me by surprise...How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?
I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that "I was only on the first hole" and the "back nine" was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.
But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting gray...they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me...but, I see the great change...Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant...but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd become.
Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!
And so...now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though I'm on the "back nine", and I'm not sure how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over on this earth...it's over. A new adventure will begin! Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done...things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.
So, if you're not on the "back nine" yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether you're on the "back nine" or not!
You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!
"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one. LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY ! HAVE A GREAT DAY Remember "It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver. LIVE HAPPY IN 2015!
LASTLY, CONSIDER THIS: ~Your kids are becoming you......but your grandchildren are perfect! ~Going out is good.. Coming home is better! ~You forget names.... But it's OK because other people forgot they even knew you!!! ~You realize you're never going to be really good at anything.... especially golf. ~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really do care that you don't care to do them anymore. ~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep". ~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch.. ~You tend to use more 4 letter words ... "what?"..."when?"..." ??? ~Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere. ~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!!! ~What used to be freckles are now liver spots. ~Everybody whispers. ~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear. ~~~But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all, OLD FRIENDS!!
Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!" Send this on to other "Old Friends!" and let them laugh in AGREEMENT!!! It's Not What You Gather, But
What You Scatter That Tells What Kind Of Life You Have Lived.
TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN, YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER BE, SO ENJOY
**
Jamaluddin Jarjis was a member of parlement of Rompin and a former minister of Malaysia
Wednesday, 12 November 2014
MISS INTERNATIONAL 2014
Miss Puerto Rico, Valerie Hernandez Matias for Miss International 2014!
1st Runner up Miss Colombia, Zuleika Suarez
2nd Runner up Miss Thailand, Punika Kulsoontornrut
3rd Runner up Miss United Kingdom, Victoria Tooby...
As per INDIATVNewsIANS
IANS [ Updated 12 Nov 2014, 09:35:51 ]
Miss International 2014: Carolina's Valerie Hernandez wins the pageant
Tokyo: Valerie Hernandez of cPuerto Rio was crowned Miss International 2014 Tuesday here.
The beauty pageant's 54th annual event, which was held at the Grand Prince Hotel Takanawa, had 73 entrants from all over the world between the age of 19 and 26.
Dressed in a gold-embellished white gown, Hernandez sobbed with joy as she was officially crowned by Miss International 2013 winner Bea Santiago of the Philippines. The 21-year-old is a student and model from Carolina, Puerto Rico.
The first runner up was Colombia's Zuleika Suarez followed by Thailand's Punika Kulsoontornrut and Britain's Victoria Tooby.
According to the Philippine Star, during the question-and-answer rounds in the lead-up to the finals, Hernandez termed winning the title as a hard responsibility, reports dailymail.co.uk.
"Thinking about the Miss International title, I think it's not just crown, it's not just the title, it's one of the hardest responsibilities. As Miss International, I want to send a message of love, peace, and unity," she said.
On her official Facebook page, Hernandez claims she was trained in classical ballet at the Escuela de Bellas Artes de Carolina. She lists Pizza Hut and Professional Gym as her previous employers.
Meanwhile, Jhataleka Malhotra, who was representing India at the world beauty pageant, did not make it to the top ten. According to a report, Jhataleka was given the title of Miss Internet Beauty.
Indonesia won the best national cosume
https://www.facebook.com/Miss.International.bp
Sunday, 9 November 2014
TEARS AGAIN
Now and then I still dream about you..........
And I always end up waking sobbing.
I miss you very much .....still
And I always end up waking sobbing.
I miss you very much .....still
Saturday, 8 November 2014
...A THOUGHT
...And I wish that while walking in your life's lane, you come across and walk with dreamers, the believers, the courageous, the cheerful, the planners, the doers, the successful people with their heads in the clouds and their feet on the ground. Let all the positive spirit & energies of this universe come together this way, your way, making every journey of your life most beautiful, fulfilling and prideful. Let the world feel blessed and continue to get better by touch of your elegance.
Monday, 18 August 2014
DREAM
Argument
To dream that you are arguing suggests that you are trying to resolve some internal conflict or some unsettled issue in your waking life. Consider the symbolism of whom you are arguing with and what you are arguing about.How does he or she reflect some person or some aspect of yourself in your waking life?
Priest
To see a priest in your dream represents your spiritual needs, sense of morality and religious beliefs. You are looking for guidance. It also symbolizes chastity and abstinence. Perhaps, you are feeling sexually repressed.
To see a dictatorial or condemning priest in your dream signifies unyielding authority and over-protectiveness. You may feel that you are living under unreasonable rules.
Religion
To dream of your religion represents your faithfulness and sense of spirituality. Perhaps your dream is telling you to be more religious or that you need to be more spiritual. Alternatively, the dream may be a metaphor for some behavior or habit which you are "religious" about.
To dream about a different religion from your own suggests that you need to incorporate some key component of that religion in your own life. The dream may also mean that you need to be more accepting and tolerant of the differences in humanity.
To dream that you are arguing suggests that you are trying to resolve some internal conflict or some unsettled issue in your waking life. Consider the symbolism of whom you are arguing with and what you are arguing about.How does he or she reflect some person or some aspect of yourself in your waking life?
Priest
To see a priest in your dream represents your spiritual needs, sense of morality and religious beliefs. You are looking for guidance. It also symbolizes chastity and abstinence. Perhaps, you are feeling sexually repressed.
To see a dictatorial or condemning priest in your dream signifies unyielding authority and over-protectiveness. You may feel that you are living under unreasonable rules.
Religion
To dream of your religion represents your faithfulness and sense of spirituality. Perhaps your dream is telling you to be more religious or that you need to be more spiritual. Alternatively, the dream may be a metaphor for some behavior or habit which you are "religious" about.
To dream about a different religion from your own suggests that you need to incorporate some key component of that religion in your own life. The dream may also mean that you need to be more accepting and tolerant of the differences in humanity.
Sunday, 17 August 2014
Afternoon Dream
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walking to Yona from home to Tyne Garden Shop houses.
Wanting to buy food.
saw in the dream I was with mom too. Went to a table where I saw dad and atlas sitting down having a meal. Mum asked to tapau the food they didn't finish. I saw a bunch of cats. Looking at them made me realise that one was mine. Looking around some more I saw coconut ( my Burmese cat). Then I confirm that many of them were mine. My bikini boy, Kiwi , mama Dotty. My thoughts were some one did not close the door properly and boy what a distance they had travel to get there.
Rushing to get home. I had to go down what look like straits but are actually square boxes stacked like decks of straits which were filled with cats....sleeping in every single box. I carried one white cat..which also looked like mine. She was purring....
.http://esmesanbona.hubpages.com/hub/Cats-in-a-Dream-The-Meaning-of-Cats-as-Dream-Symbols
walking to Yona from home to Tyne Garden Shop houses.
Wanting to buy food.
saw in the dream I was with mom too. Went to a table where I saw dad and atlas sitting down having a meal. Mum asked to tapau the food they didn't finish. I saw a bunch of cats. Looking at them made me realise that one was mine. Looking around some more I saw coconut ( my Burmese cat). Then I confirm that many of them were mine. My bikini boy, Kiwi , mama Dotty. My thoughts were some one did not close the door properly and boy what a distance they had travel to get there.
Rushing to get home. I had to go down what look like straits but are actually square boxes stacked like decks of straits which were filled with cats....sleeping in every single box. I carried one white cat..which also looked like mine. She was purring....
.http://esmesanbona.hubpages.com/hub/Cats-in-a-Dream-The-Meaning-of-Cats-as-Dream-Symbols
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