Read it over and over again each time I face the question on WHY someone life's 'path' branches out from mine.
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a
lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know
what to do for that person. When someone is in your
life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you
have expressed. They have come to assist you through a
difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are
there for the reason you need them to be. Then,
without any wrongdoing on your part or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do
something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer
you sent up has been answered and now it is time to
move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because
your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring
you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may
teach you something you have never done. They usually
give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it
is real. But only for a season.!
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid
emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the
lesson, love the person and put what you have learned
to use in all other relationships and areas of your
life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is
clairvoyant .
I never fail to thank them for being a part of my life, whether they were there for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
The road of life twists and turns and no two directions are ever the same. Yet our lessons come from the journey, not the destination.
Life is a one time forward journey....we could wish with regrets for what we SHOULD HAVE , COULD HAVE or MIGHT HAVE done to turn back the clock and put whatever 'wrong' matter to 'right' but in reality we know this is something impossible .
It is gone when it is gone .....
...and so we move on....
as with life.
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